What can I do if my daughter-in-law is verbally abusive toward my granddaughter? I called you about my daughter with bipolar disorder, and you helped! I’m 63yrs old and a widow; how do I connect with a strong Christian man? I never bonded with my family, so I have a hard time bonding with others and feel isolated. My Mom took my children to her house even after I told her not to because my stepdad was abusive to us when I was a child; how do I handle it? Do I drop charges against the father of my child who was violent two years ago but he tells me to just forgive and forget?