Fear and faith cannot occupy the same space in your brain at the same time. How can I deal with the guilt of not taking care of my mother in her old age? I am already caring for my elderly father-in-law. My dad claimed I wasn’t his child, and my life has spiraled out of control because of fear; can you help? After 4yrs of marriage, my husband thinks my anxiety, ADHD, and rage are behavioral problems not mental illness.