Should I stay with my wife or give her what she wants and leave? She hasn’t hardly talked to me for 2yrs and won’t combine our finances. I’ve been trying to get in touch with an old high school friend, and she won’t respond to me. Do I write her off? How do I talk to my grandson-in-law about being a helicopter dad and too controlling? I come from a verbally abusive family who still hurt my feelings; how do I become less sensitive?