I was reading a devotional about Zephaniah 3:17 and God delighting in us. How do I feel God’s feelings for me? Do I submit to my husband and attend his church? We’re newly married, and a woman that my husband previously dated goes to that church. My husband has stopped looking at other women, but I recently caught him smoking marijuana and lying to me. Where do I go from here? How do I deal with the trauma of miscarriage 7yrs ago? I just found out I’m pregnant, and I’m anxious.