Dr. Jill Hubbard shares What To Do When a Loved One Won’t Seek Help. How can my husband and I present a united front if my daughter’s boyfriend will be moving in with her and we don’t agree? Should I always submit and defer to my husband? Should I stop attending church because my husband has stopped? My husband has been unfaithful several times in the 11yrs we’ve been married. How can I lovingly talk to my granddaughter in college and help her realize that dating a woman is not right?