JJ discusses why you should challenge yourself without letting the challenge define your worth. What’s the next step for me if my husband had a 10yr affair, and I didn’t handle it the right way? A man from church says he likes me, but we haven’t gone on a date; how do I wait confidently on God? Having trouble finding a church because I only get voicemail, and they never call me back. How do I get over my son’s mother-in-law hitting me violently at his wedding reception six months ago?