JJ West shares about The Serenity Prayer and Unexpected Disappointment. How do I deal with my elderly father who says he will no longer want to live after his significant other dies? I struggle with flashbacks from discovering my husband had an affair for several decades; how do I move on? How do I get him to understand my emotions? My previous pastor taught that getting divorced and remarried is adultery; is my marriage to my 2nd wife going to keep us out of heaven? How do I handle my 69yo husband thinking of stopping his kidney dialysis? It seems like it’s a suicide wish.