I felt uncomfortable in my gynecological exam because the assistant was trans, so I left the room; should I have handled it differently? What should I do to recover from feeling like I’ve blasphemed the Holy Spirit? How do I respond to my friend who feels like he rushed into his second marriage after his divorce? Where do I go from here if I want our 32yo son to move out, but my Asian husband wants him to stay because it’s okay in his culture?