My ex-husband wants us to celebrate Thanksgiving as a family, and his girlfriend will be there. How do I graciously turn down his offer? I’m going through a 12-step program for alcohol. What is your definition of an unmanageable life? My husband’s 31yo daughter and partner live with us rent free because my husband is an avoider–how do we navigate this? How are women supposed to address the issue of their own porn addiction? There’s not much help out there for women.