My father cut off contact with me when he got married; does the Bible say anything about cutting off your kids who were born out of wedlock? I’m married to a husband who stonewalls me for a week at a time, then he accuses me of having an affair. You mentioned Christ being born out of wedlock, and I strongly disagree. My 14yo granddaughter lived with me, but I sent her back to her mom because of poor grades. Was that the right thing to do?