How can I help my 34yo daughter with young kids who is dating a crack addict and started using? Does she have a trauma bond? After 5yrs, how can I get off the drug suboxone which has kept me sober from painkillers? I am 70yo and my wife of 30yrs no longer wants to have sex. What can we do? On our bed I found a nude photo of my husband’s first girlfriend, and her name is the same as my granddaughter’s.