Laura suggests the best Christmas gift you can give is to invest in yourself so you can give all of yourself to your loved ones. I used to be close to my sister, but she has been talking a lot about me behind my back; how do I handle inviting her to a holiday brunch at my house? How can I find support so I can feel loved instead of tolerated? My husband and I haven’t had sex in over two years, and I feel frozen; how do I defrost? Last month I had my husband arrested for domestic battery and don’t have contact with him. How do I walk through a divorce?