My husband is signed up to go to Every Man’s Battle this weekend because you guys told me to stand up for myself! Why are young adults loyal to the parent who does nothing for them, while the parent who does everything doesn’t get respect? My ex left when our daughter was 2yo; the best thing you can do for your child is to kill the other parent with kindness even if you don’t feel like it. Should I pay for a ticket to attend my mother-in-law’s choir performance at her church when the church doesn’t believe Jesus is God?