Dr. Alice discusses why revealing ALL behavior lapses is key in recovery. I am enraged after seeing all the evil in my life since preschool; what is God thinking and why does He care about everyone else but me? I want to encourage your first caller who survived all that stuff; she may not feel like God is with her, but He is! When my husband died, I found out he had been cheating for 17yrs and I had him cremated; I feel guilty the kids didn’t have a funeral to say goodbye. Should I be cremated? Your last caller should invite the kids to have a little memorial service with her. We did this when my mom was cremated.