How can I better myself or make my wife stay after I looked at inappropriate pictures? How do I approach my husband and tell him I don’t feel safe because of his verbal abuse and threats to hurt me? My mom died 3wks ago; how do I tell a neighbor to back off from wanting to take her things? Should I make my daughters go to church or should we all decide together? My wife and I left the Mormon Church, but I can’t forget that she was beaten by her parents as a child and young adult.