Dr. Jill discusses mounting stress. Thank you! My husband and I provide counseling at our church from the resources you provide. I just discovered soft porn on my husband’s phone; what is my next step after I confronted him? How do I handle my son being in jail? After he meet his bio dad when he was 17yo, he got into drugs and alcohol. I am in financial fear of my soon-to-be ex-husband getting out of prison and suing me. I put him in prison 15yrs ago for molesting a family member.