Author and psychotherapist Cindi Martin discusses her book Choosing Intimacy and some of the barriers to it.What do I do if I feel stuck after I’ve gone to Restore and my husband has gone to Every Man’s Battle, but I still find things on his phone?I accidentally logged onto my husband’s Amazon account and didn’t like the joke birthday gifts he bought for me; should I let him know?My wife and I have been separated for 3 months now, and she has a restraining order against me because of my anger and violence.