Dr. Sheri discusses how the upcoming holidays can produce fear of intimacy, fear of vulnerability, and fear of being re-injured. What do I do to help my 32yo son who is having a baby with a married woman, and my 30yo son who is a 4-time felon? I was physically and sexually abused as a child, raped when I was a teen, then I became a perpetrator myself; if people have had trauma, can they have a good dating relationship? Can you help me understand Scriptures that say two different things about alcohol?