Why do we perceive that life will be immediately better after we turn our life over to Christ? Preachers never say how hard it will be after baptism. How do I confront my 4yo granddaughter’s mom who left my son and is now with another guy? I don’t want to be cut off from my granddaughter. Our new neighbors are a gay couple, and we were invited to their wedding; how can I be tactful in my response if I don’t feel led to go?