My sister was shot by her husband 16yrs ago, just lost her job, and has hit rock bottom. She was drinking for hours when someone found her on the ground. My parents are divorced; how can I deal with depression I’ve had since my father passed away? How do you know when to let go of something or to confront it? I am stuck in decision-making. I want to go to Intimacy in Marriage, but my wife is afraid of being in a group setting because of my struggles.