Dr. Jill explains the concept of crystallization of discontent when the pain of staying the same exceeds the pain of change. My 74yo mother-in-law is healthy, lives with us, and all she does is stay in her room all day; it’s not fair. My friend’s brother molested me when I was 8yo, and I still have problems with showering and getting undressed. I went to my daughter’s lesbian wedding, but I later said some really hurtful things to her. Now I feel so stuck I want to commit suicide. When is it okay to speak into my parents’ financial situation? They’re in their seventies, and my sister has always lived with them. 
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