My husband packed up his car and left after I found out he had an emotional affair. I’ve been extremely critical of him; is it too late for us? Should I tell my adult kids not to go to the restaurant where the woman works who had an affair with my husband? My kids don’t know he had an affair. How can I know if I need counseling? What are the signs? How do I lovingly tell my brother that he has hurt family members? He is a bully.