Do you recommend a book or therapy to get over being terrified of having a relationship with a man? My last boyfriend was a narcissist and alcoholic. You talked about reinventing yourself as empty nesters, and my wife and I are taking an online course on how to write a memoir that we have enjoyed doing together! What should I do if I’ve recently become sober from alcohol, but my separated wife wants a divorce? Any suggestions on how to help our pot-smoking, adult son who struggles with his mental health?