What steps can I take to grieve my divorce if I’ve been married 42yrs, my husband is addicted to Vicodin, drinks, and had an affair? How do I start a Life Recovery Group? I am a recovering addict and have been sober over 2yrs. The woman I’m dating called me a con-artist and it hurt me deeply; should I move on from her? Should I be a pastor again if I’ve had a sexual addiction from a young age and went to jail for 5yrs because of it?