What do I say to my close friend who is a strong woman of God, but she’s angry because one of her cousins is in hospice and his brother suddenly died last night? In trying to reconcile with my ex-husband who struggles with crack addiction, what should my boundaries be? Am I wrong to require that my 17yo nephew leave my home when he turns 18yo? He’s in my custody, and he’s been getting high. I overcame a porn addiction from your help on the radio years ago, but I’m more isolated than ever and need help.