Dr. Jacqui discusses the burdens we carry and taking them to the Lord. When my ex-husband wanted me to bail him out of jail, I turned him down. How should I treat him now? My soon-to-be 18yo daughter has always been challenging to me, and she has narcissistic tendencies. My 30yo nephew is struggling with alcohol; he was sober for 3mos but has recently relapsed. I found out that a couple I know charged thousands on my credit card after I gave them the card for their doctor copays. In the Bible it says Christians are not to go to court, so what do I do?