How do I deal with my husband’s parents who overstep our boundaries? His mom has bought airplane tickets to visit us without asking. My husband hasn’t worked in a year, and this pattern has been going on for 17yrs; should I get a divorce? Is it appropriate for my 14yo daughter to go to a Codependent Anonymous meeting? I’m a recovering sex addict and alcoholic, and her mother and I reconciled after our divorce. What should I do about my 26yo nephew who has lived with us since birth, is an alcoholic, and is very disrespectful to us?