Dr. Jim Burns shares how to create a media-safe home. Where do I go with my relationship with my 23yo son after he set a fire in our house? My ex-husband was verbally abusive, and I cheated on him to get out of it; how do I work on forgiving myself? What should I do while my married 31yo daughter, who lives out of state, decides she wants to reconnect? How can I fix an issue when I don’t know what it is?