Nicholas Rose is a sex and relationship therapist, and he’s published some of his case-studies - the collection is called Better Together.

We talk how to identify if you've got a problem, tactics on how to rediscover intimacy without the drugs or alcohol, and the pros and cons of talking about why sober sex is important for you.

Host: Gareth Johnson

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How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been helping men come together for over 25 years.