Nick Graz Show

Barnet Bain: How to Find Your True Self, Transcend Ego & Build Real Connections

In this episode, acclaimed filmmaker, producer, and author Barnet Bain explores the psychological journey of shedding external identities to discover authentic self-awareness. Barnet breaks down his framework of the three core life stories that shape human behavior, examining how early conditioning and unexamined ambitions drive our choices until we actively cultivate deeper consciousness. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

He shares candid reflections on moving past ego-driven definitions of success, explaining how true growth changes our capacity for empathy and connection. Barnet also outlines key concepts from his book, discussing why modern distractions erode meaningful relationships and how learning to navigate silence transforms our internal state.

Key takeaways in this episode:

The distinction between acquired social roles and authentic self-identity

Understanding the three core stories of personal development

How unexamined ambition and ego complicate business and personal relationships

Why modern conditioning makes silence and unhurried attention uncomfortable

Practical approaches to building deeper, more compassionate friendships

If you want to cultivate self-awareness, master your internal state, and build stronger relational connections, this conversation provides a thoughtful blueprint.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:55 - Who were you trying to become before you learned who you actually are?

10:50 - How long was the process of finding your true self on that journey?

16:09 - People often chase business success, but ego and ambition can collide along the way. How do you see that dynamic?

26:36 - Is that the reason you wrote your third book?

26:51 - When we reach a deeper level of consciousness and self-awareness (“the third story”), do we become more lonely? Is it harder to connect with people who aren’t on the same level of growth?

33:17 - Where did the inspiration for your book come from, and what message are you trying to communicate through it?

42:48 - Why do we avoid silence?

51:44 - What is the most misunderstood aspect of being a good friend?

57:24 - What are your thoughts on helping friends we feel we’ve outgrown? Is there anything we can do to help them “catch up”?

1:01:48 - What do you do daily to improve your mental state and work on your mindset?

Is entrepreneurship actually for everyone? According to 8-figure CEO Kelly Roach, the answer is a firm "No." In this deep dive, Nick Graz explores the "Inside Out" of one of the world's leading business strategists to uncover the discipline and standards required to reach the top 1% of earners. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com Kelly breaks down her "Miracle Hour" system, a foundational approach designed to make sales predictable and consistent without needing a 60-hour work week. We discuss the shift from corporate executive to side-hustler, the importance of "Conviction Marketing," and why human connection is the ultimate insurance policy in an AI-dominated market.In this video, you will learn:The Miracle Hour: How to organize, monetize, and multiply your leads in 60 minutes a day.The Truth About Discipline: Why it’s not about "finding time," but about acting in alignment with your desires.Decision Speed: Why business decisions must be rubber (fast) while personal decisions are glass (slow).AI vs. Human Touch: Why you should not outsource your consciousness to an algorithm.Parenting for Success: How to instill an unstoppable mindset in the next generation.TIMESTAMPS 4:39 – Let’s go back a bit. Who were you before all the success and recognition?5:27 – Was there ever a moment when you doubted whether you were really the person to do this?6:29 – And when those moments of doubt come up, how do you personally handle them?7:42 – Was there a belief you had to let go of because it kept holding you back?9:45 – Did you feel any fear when you made the shift from corporate to entrepreneurship?12:08 – Looking back at your corporate career, what felt most out of alignment with the life you actually wanted?16:51 – Do you feel like success changed you, or did it just reveal more of who you already were?21:58 – How do you approach decision-making today?24:48 – You talk a lot about discipline. Where do you think that really comes from for you?26:26 – Does discipline feel more like pressure, or more like purpose?27:28 – Do you think you hold yourself to a higher standard than most, or is that just naturally who you are?29:26 – How do you deal with moments when you don’t meet your own standards?30:16 – Do you ever question whether your standards are too high and adjust them, or are you always aiming for that same level?31:49 – Do you believe everyone is meant to be an entrepreneur?34:50 – Do you think social media has glamorized entrepreneurship in a way that makes it seem more accessible than it really is?37:15 – If you think about entrepreneurship as two sides, creating and maintaining, which one do you enjoy more?38:06 – What’s one non-negotiable habit that defines you when you’re in that creation phase?39:45 – When you wrote your book, what was the core message you really wanted to share?43:24 – And now, looking at your book today, who is it really for, and how would you recommend someone approach reading it?45:21 – As entrepreneurs, what should we focus on teaching our kids so they don’t grow up with the same limiting beliefs we had?46:54 – And to close—what does “inside out” mean to you?

In this episode of The Nick Graz Show, Nick sits down with Danielle Amos, founder of Mystic Millionaire and former mentee of Bob Proctor (‪@BobProctorTV‬), to explore the real reason many people struggle with money. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com Danielle teaches that wealth is not only about strategy. It begins with identity, self-image, and the beliefs operating in the subconscious mind. Danielle Amos is known for helping entrepreneurs upgrade their self-image, align with universal laws, and transform how they think and feel about wealth and success. Her work combines mindset, spirituality, and practical business thinking to help people break financial limits and build a new relationship with money.In this conversation, we explore the deeper side of money, success, and identity.Inside this episode:• Danielle’s life before Mystic Millionaire• The moment she realized her results were connected to self-image• Why many people struggle to feel worthy of wealth• What it means to live in harmony with universal laws• The law of vibration and how thoughts influence results• The biggest mindset shift Danielle learned from Bob Proctor• Why positive thinking alone does not change your life• What a real quantum leap means in business and income• Why people feel guilty about becoming wealthy• The small shift anyone can make today to start changing their life• The hardest lesson Danielle learned from Bob Proctor• What clients think they need versus what they actually needDanielle explains that success begins inside. When self-image changes, decisions change, actions change, and results begin to shift. She also shares why many entrepreneurs focus on strategy while ignoring the deeper identity behind their results.

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with real estate veteran and founder of Smart Real Estate Coach, Chris Prefontaine. Rebounding from total financial devastation during the 2008 housing crash, Chris outlines how he rebuilt his business from zero using creative financing methods that eliminate the need for bank loans or personal guarantees. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Chris delivers a candid assessment of the discipline required to succeed in business, explaining why most entrepreneurs fail due to mismanaged expectations rather than market conditions. He breaks down his trademarked strategy for structuring win-win deals, navigating market uncertainty, and building long-term wealth by providing real solutions to property sellers.

Key takeaways in this episode:

The unfiltered reality of entrepreneurship and why discipline outweighs luck

How to structure real estate deals without using banks or personal credit

Overcoming market panics by doubling down while others hesitate

The difference between consistency and chasing short-term shiny objects

How to generate multiple income streams using a proven creative finance framework

If you want to navigate changing markets, master creative real estate strategies, and build a resilient business framework, this conversation provides a practical roadmap.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:56 - When did you realize that real estate was the path you wanted to pursue?

06:17 - From your perspective, what’s the truth about success that most people don’t want to hear?

07:57 - What’s the best way to help people when they feel stuck, hit a wall, and don’t know how to move forward?

09:17 - Looking at yourself today, what is one inner quality or mindset that created the success you have now?

09:54 - Where does discipline come from for you personally?

10:59 - Is discipline more about pain or purpose for you?

11:45 - When people say, “Discipline doesn’t work for me,” what do you think they actually need to learn next?

14:01 - What principles have kept you grounded and stable throughout your journey?

16:23 - How do you make decisions nowadays when the stakes are high? Do you have a process or filter you rely on?

18:02 - What is the core message you hope your book spreads?

19:39 - What are some truths about real estate that people usually don’t realize until they actually enter the industry?

21:59 - A lot of people say, “I don’t have the money to get into real estate.” Is that a myth, or is there truth to it?

24:16 - Do you think money changes people, or does it simply reveal who they already are?

25:05 - What does it really mean to live without relying on banks?

25:59 - How did the mindset of “I don’t trust banks” change the trajectory of your success? And was implementing that model risky in the beginning?

27:29 - Do you see real estate primarily as an asset or a liability? And what advice would you give to people who want to start investing in it?

30:01 - Have you ever doubted your confidence before making a major deal?

31:41 - If someone is starting from zero, what’s the first thing they should focus on — and what’s the last thing they should worry about?

34:02 - What’s the hardest part of mixing family and business, and what’s the best part about it?

35:06 - What message would you like to leave for the people watching this podcast?

In this second appearance on The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down again with John Lee Dumas (JLD), creator and host of the award-winning podcast Entrepreneurs on Fire. Going beyond high-level tactics, JLD opens up about the personal evolution, mindset shifts, and hidden costs that shaped his path to building a top-tier media empire. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

John shares why chasing "success" for the first 32 years of his life was his biggest mistake and how pivoting to become a "person of value" changed everything. He dives deep into why broad targeting fails, how dominating a micro-niche guarantees long-term authority, and what new entrepreneurs must focus on to future-proof their businesses in the age of AI.

Key takeaways in this episode:

Person of Success vs. Person of Value: The Albert Einstein quote that reshaped JLD's career

The micro-niche advantage: Why serving a specific problem creates sustainable, high-margin authority

The real cost of massive achievement: Managing time, health, and systems without burning out

Leveraging the Law of Reciprocity to connect and build relationships with high-level leaders

What would JLD do if he were starting completely from scratch in today's digital landscape?

If you want to refine your offer positioning, build systems that give you back your time, and deliver undeniable market value, this episode provides a direct framework.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:40 - Before Entrepreneurs on Fire, who were you really trying to become and who were you trying to escape from?

06:20 - How did you feel when you discovered that part of yourself?

08:08 - What price did you have to pay in order to become successful?

09:55 - What truth do you believe about success that your audience might completely disagree with?

11:35 - If tomorrow Entrepreneurs on Fire disappeared, what part of you would feel lost and what part of you would feel free?

14:13 - What’s a question nobody has ever asked you, but you believe deserves to be answered publicly?

16:58 - What was the biggest mindset shift you had about connecting with people who were far ahead of you? And how do you see it today?

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with internationally acclaimed business strategist and master NLP trainer, Lenka Lutonska. Lenka shares her powerful journey from arriving in the UK with just £30 to building a multi-million dollar coaching business, detailing the pivotal moments that changed her perspective on wealth and entrepreneurship. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Lenka breaks down the concept of Business Energetics, the principle that "energy leads and strategy follows." She explains why traditional, purely logical sales strategies are failing in today's market, and how combining deep internal alignment with clear execution allows entrepreneurs to command high-ticket prices, attract dream clients, and scale without burnout.

Key takeaways in this episode:

How overcoming early struggles and identity shifts created the foundation for rapid business expansion

The fundamental principle of Business Energetics: Why energy must lead every strategy you launch

How to release the "struggler identity" and stop relying on sheer force or overworking

The 4-step morning energetic process to clear anxiety, shift state, and realign for high output

Why modern buyers respond to deeply embodied conviction rather than superficial sales tactics

If you want to raise your prices, release subconscious resistance, and integrate strategic growth with deep internal conviction, this conversation provides a clear blueprint.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:50 - What were the earliest signs or “whispers” in your life that made you feel you were meant for something more?

06:27 - Was there anyone in your life you could share that dream with, or who supported you early on?

07:53 - What ultimately pushed you to take that first step?

09:42 - What did the beginning really look like for you - no apartment, uncertainty, and not knowing what comes next?

13:41 - Was there ever a moment when you felt like giving up?

20:39 - What do you believe the future is here to teach us?

22:47 - Where did that understanding first come from for you — was it intuition, experience, or something deeper?

34:46 - You’ve said “energy leads and strategy follows.” What does that actually mean in practical terms?

44:25 - Why do so many women feel blocked when it comes to receiving money, love, and success?

47:59 - Do you find it easier to work with male or female clients, or is there no difference?

49:06 - How do you personally regulate your energy before serving or coaching others?

53:16 - What does true feminine power look like in business, and how is it misunderstood today?

56:29 - What do most women secretly fear when stepping into their biggest potential?

59:29 - What would you say to women who feel like they’ve tried everything and nothing has worked for them?

1:04:52 - What is the most misunderstood concept about wealth?

1:07:59 - Does achieving results build self-confidence over time, making each next step easier?

1:11:38 - How can people charge higher prices than they currently are?

1:17:33 - How do you define “business energetics,” and why do you see it as the future of entrepreneurship?

1:20:53 - If everything you’ve built disappeared tomorrow, what would still remain true for you?

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with AI coach and business strategist Jonathan Mast. Addressing common misconceptions about working with artificial intelligence, Jonathan explains why you do not need to build complex software to harness AI; you simply need to know how to deploy accessible tools like ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini to scale your operations. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Jonathan shares his personal journey as an entrepreneur with ADHD and demonstrates how AI serves as an execution multiplier, taking large-scale research, content strategies, and operational frameworks from idea to launch in minutes. He tackles the big questions around job displacement, human resistance to technology, and why AI amplifies existing skills rather than replacing human creativity.

Key takeaways in this episode:

The fundamental difference between building AI tools and leveraging them for business growth

How AI acts as a productivity engine for neurodivergent and high-output entrepreneurs

Why technological shifts create more specialized careers rather than causing a total job apocalypse

How to use AI to deliver high-value content without spending endless hours on manual work

Balancing automated efficiency with critical human oversight across leadership and decision-making

If you want to streamline your workflow, scale your content output, and stay ahead of technology shifts in your market, this conversation offers direct, practical guidance.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:51 - As an AI expert, what do people most commonly misunderstand about you and your work?

07:18 - What belief about business and success did you hold for years that AI has completely changed for you?

11:13 - Before AI became mainstream, what core problems were you trying to solve in the marketplace that you now amplify using AI?

13:17 - How do you see AI impacting or replacing certain jobs in the future?

16:33 - As AI continues to grow, what types of professions or roles do you believe will emerge in the next few years?

19:05 - How quickly is AI changing the way you operate, and is it making your work more or less time-consuming as a company leader?

21:09 - Is AI making people lazier in their thinking, or is it actually improving how we think?

23:44 - Are there any industries or areas where you believe AI should not be applied?

25:39 - Do you think there is a mindset difference between people who actively explore AI and those who prefer to stick to traditional methods?

27:47 - Would you say resistance to AI is more emotional or more logical in nature?

29:40 - How heavily does your business rely on AI tools, and which ones do you personally use for specific tasks?

32:25 - How much do you use AI in your personal life outside of work?

33:44 - How much do you trust AI today?

36:08 - Can AI expose low standards faster than managers or organizations when it comes to performance, hiring, or compensation expectations?

38:21 - Is there anything about the future of AI that concerns you, and what excites you the most?

39:45 - What developments in AI do you think could create the biggest positive change in the near future?

41:42 - How has AI changed the way you think about success and money?

43:17 - Has AI forced you to confront any uncomfortable truths about yourself?

43:50 - What do you hope people feel after listening to this conversation?

44:26 - What is the one belief you want to leave people with regarding AI and facing challenges in business today?

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with brain expert, author, and founder of BrainTap, Dr. Patrick Porter. Drawing from over 50 years of experience in neuroscience, psychology, and mind-training technologies, Dr. Porter explains how childhood conditioning, cellular memory, and brain wave states control up to 99% of daily choices. He breaks down the true science of neuroplasticity and shares how anyone can upgrade their mental software to overcome inherited limitations. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Dr. Porter unpacks the role of brain voltage in decision-making, explaining how stress drains neural energy and keeps people stuck in old behavioral loops. He reveals practical methods to lower nervous system stress, activate neurogenesis, and build lasting habits that unlock high performance and clarity.

Key takeaways in this episode:

How childhood programming between ages zero and seven forms your subconscious baseline

The science behind ancestral DNA memory and how fear responses get passed down

Why raising your brain voltage is essential for rapid neuroplasticity and decision-making

The four main hidden sources of mental fatigue: thoughts, toxins, traumas, and technology

Simple daily protocols to downregulate your nervous system and expand focus

If you want to optimize your mental performance, eliminate subconscious blocks, and take total control of your internal state, this conversation gives you a clear scientific roadmap.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:49 - What is the core of your expertise right now?

09:29 - What part of your identity as a “brain expert” do you feel is most misunderstood?

10:56 - How did everything originally start for you?

16:40 - At what point do we start working against our own nature and begin limiting ourselves?

23:04 - If someone has a fear of swimming, could that be linked to ancestral experiences embedded in DNA?

27:27 - If we truly have choice, why do people still end up limiting themselves?

36:25 - From a scientific perspective, where do thoughts actually come from?

41:47 - Can you provide some scientific context around Thomas Edison sleeping with a metal bowl in his hand, and why that matters?

52:31 - What frustrates you most about modern personal development as it appears on social media today?

55:08 - How do you personally stay grounded between scientific evidence and belief?

1:02:46 - Do you believe mindset is what separates high performers from others?

1:04:19 - Why do some people perform better under pressure?

1:07:54 - How much of success is conscious effort versus subconscious programming?

1:10:37 - What daily mental habit provides the highest long-term ROI?

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with top offer-creation specialist and former ClickFunnels lead funnel builder Steve J. Larsen. After going through 34 consecutive product failures, Steve unlocked the exact framework needed to build multi-million dollar offers. He breaks down the fundamental difference between building a funnel and actual marketing, sharing why most entrepreneurs fail to generate warm leads online. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Steve dives into the mechanics of offer pricing, ethical offer design, and how to use customer stories as powerful marketing hooks. He also addresses the future of online business, explaining how AI is shifting market value from simple information to deep transformation and human connection.

Key takeaways in this episode:

The core reason 34 product failures transformed into a multi-million dollar success formula

Why funnel building alone will never make money without proper marketing behind it

The strategic approach to pricing your offer slightly above competitors to attract better clients

How to write marketing hooks that speak directly to your target customer's current pain points

How AI is reshaping digital marketing and where human value will matter most moving forward

If you want to refine your marketing message, position your offers effectively, and scale your digital sales, this conversation provides clear, actionable steps.

TIMESTAMPS:

02:54 - Who was Steve J. Larsen before becoming the Steve J. Larsen we know today?

06:30 - How did you first enter the world of funnels and offers?

08:08 - At that time, what were you trying to prove — that you could become someone, or that you deserved to be wealthy?

09:12 - Can any offer actually be a good offer?

13:01 - What makes an offer truly irresistible?

17:15 - How do you price offers today, and what do you consider ethical pricing?

19:09 - What is the one thing that makes an offer so powerful that people feel stupid saying no to it?

21:28 - Why do some people gain attention instantly while others need much longer to "figure it out"?

26:12 - What belief about the online business world do you hold that most people would disagree with?

26:34 - Do you think human-to-human connection will become more valuable over time, especially as AI grows?

32:46 - How do you identify leverage in your businesses today?

36:34 - What role do events and webinars play in building authority in the AI era?

39:04 - What is the one final message you would like to leave with the audience?

In this episode of The NGR Show, Nick Graz sits down with legendary speaker and author Jim Britt. From dropping out of high school and living in an abandoned boxcar to making his first million alongside Jim Rohn, Jim shares his raw journey through poverty, rapid wealth, and total mindset transformation. He explains why most people stay stuck in old financial patterns and how early childhood programming shapes adult success. Please visit my website for more information: www.nickgraz.com 

Jim breaks down the hidden traps of limiting beliefs and explains why changing your life requires certainty, not just trying. You will learn how to let go of old mental habits, stop self-sabotage, and shift your internal identity so you can handle higher levels of income, pressure, and business growth.

Key takeaways in this episode:

Why many people spend their first million quickly and return to being broke

The crucial difference between trying to achieve a goal and knowing you will succeed

How childhood programming controls your decisions and financial limits as an adult

The simple process of letting go of old beliefs to clear space for real success

If you want to break past your current income plateau and build a business from the inside out, this conversation gives you the exact mental shift required to reach the next level. 

TIMESTAMPS:

02:37 - Who was Jim Britt before all the fame and success?

08:01 - How long did your first million last?

09:39 - How old were you when you met Jim Rohn?

10:30 - What belief about yourself did you have to unlearn when you started making serious money?

15:28 - What is the most dangerous limiting belief people hold today that prevents them from reaching their goals?

19:28 - Do you agree that to reach the next level, you must first change and align yourself with it?

32:51 - How do you make decisions nowadays?

35:13 - When making decisions, do you always focus on the outcome?

36:44 - Why do people often return to old behavioral patterns?

41:03 - What do you notice in people that they themselves might not see when they're on stage or in public?

46:17 - How do you manage your ego after experiencing significant success?

49:01 - How do you handle pressure in both business and life today?

54:46 - Do you think speed of decision-making is more important than accuracy?

1:04:34 - For someone listening who wants to take the first step toward a better life or business success, what should they do?

1:10:18 - What is one inner quality that, once mastered, changes everything?

1:13:04 - Is there anything I didn't ask you that you would still like to share?