April 26, 2026

No Brokies Allowed (This Might Be Love Episode 3

1 hour 2 minutes

This Might Be Love 💕 podcast features hosts Jay and Nay Highschool Sweethearts discussing various topics, offering Unfiltered advice, sharing personal experiences and Opinions. And trying to redefine what love truly is. The Relationship Might Not Be Perfect But You Can Bet The Advice Is Real

Introduction and banter (0:00-3:00): The hosts start with some playful banter about who scooted closer to whom and discuss being "fresh out the doghouse," a metaphor for being in trouble with their partner.
• Importance of money in a relationship (3:00-14:30): This is the main topic. They debate how important money is, whether a man should make a certain amount, and if being rich changes the importance of money in finding love. Jay emphasizes that money shouldn't be the primary determiner of love, while Mrs. Nae states it's a top priority for comfort. Jay also expresses a preference for a partner who understands how money works and hustles.
• Dividing finances (14:30-17:00): They discuss their approach to dividing finances, which is 50/50, and emphasize finding a balance that works for each couple.
• Stay-at-home parent role (17:00-26:00): They discuss the idea of one partner being a stay-at-home parent/spouse. Mrs. Nae is open to Jay being a stay-at-home dad with kids, but is concerned about his parenting style. Jay jokes about treating Mrs. Nae like a "slave" if she were a stay-at-home wife and expresses concerns about the boredom and lack of social interaction that might come with not working. They also playfully discuss "house rules" and "black holidays" like Juneteenth.
• Money and power dynamic (33:30-35:30): They agree that the highest earner or the person paying for something gets more say or "privilege" in decisions, such as vacation destinations or household projects.
• Audience questions (35:30-45:00): They start answering audience questions (though they admit they "stole" these from the internet for this episode).
• Sex in a relationship (37:00-39:50): They discuss what's left in a relationship without sex. Jay strongly believes sex is a "key component" and without it, it's just a friendship. Mrs. Nae agrees to an extent, but also mentions older couples who are still in love without sex.
• Polyamory (39:50-41:30): They define polyamory and discuss why it might be problematic due to trust issues, jealousy, and possessiveness.
• Perfect date night (41:30-45:00): They describe their ideal date nights. Mrs. Nae prefers low-key at-home dates or arcade/bowling, while Jay describes a more elaborate "perfect date day" involving sex, food, and a comedy show