One-third of people will spend the holidays with someone they dislike...'And?' says AJ. Statistically, if you get enough people together you're not going to be fond of at least one of them and of course that's going to happen during the holidays, but is it really that surprising or that awful? McCall says for the holidays she sets her schedule and that's that, while AJ feels like he needs to make an itinerary. It doesn't matter how it goes, every time he goes home he has to explain it over and over.