What we're taught in our formative years from the people around us, can majorly impact the way we enter into relationships.Harry speaks about the pressures he felt around having sex, and how he felt that correlated to him becoming a man.He reminds us that no matter what you were taught growing up, you can always unlearn those lessons to create better habits and stronger relationships.

Sometimes waiting to have sex until the time is right, can be like opening Pandora's box when the time comes.Maddy speaks about the beautiful moments that come out of the first time having sex when you experience it with someone that you love.She also preaches how important self-pleasure is and getting to know your body before you can expect someone else to understand it.

The people we surround ourselves with can dramatically impact where we put the markers of success in our lives.Olly speaks about his quest to have sex for the first time after he felt he had fallen behind his peers.He reminds us of the awkwardness of teenage romances and learning how to speak to girls.

Sometimes it's difficult to ascertain when you've had sex, making it hard to pinpoint your first time.Kariah speaks about the difficulty of finding the line between sex with female partners and foreplay.She opens up about her journey to her first orgasm, and all the difficulties along the way, and the unexpected reaction she had when it first happened.If you want to learn more about anorgasmia, you can read more about it here.Learn more about the entire clitoris and different ways to stimulate it here.

Story after story we keep hearing that it's crucial to know our own bodies to get full pleasure from sex, so let's learn how to pleasure ourselves!Sexologist Elaine S. Turner has come on board to talk about erogenous zones, sex toys, and all things self-pleasure.To find out more or get in touch with Elaine visit sexwithelaine.com or check out her Instagram @sexwithelaine.

If the idea of virginity is weighing you down, sometimes you just have to go for it.Pappy speaks about the feeling of rejection that came from being the last person in his friendship group to have sex.Eventually, he did have sex, but this feeling of insecurity stayed and led to some bad behaviour and tough conversations.Pappy reminds us that good people can make mistakes, but there's always space for reform.

Sometimes you're just so horny you cannot physically wait to have sex any longer.Emily speaks about being an early bloomer and feeling like she couldn't connect with her friends because of it.She teaches us about orgasms, self-pleasure, and what virginity should actually look like.Emily is studying sexology and has a sex podcast of her own called That's Orgasmic.If you've come to the show notes look for the orgasm book it's Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. Happy climaxing!

Breaking into an establishment to have sex just makes the first time even more thrilling, right?Jake speaks about the heartrate-rising risks he took to have sex for the very first time.He reminds us that being open and honest with the people around us, leads to better relationships and a helluva lot of fun!

Sometimes sex and love involve taking some risks.Sam speaks about a long-term situationship, and how a lack of confidence can affect the search for love and sex.He reminds us that taking the pressure off from finding 'the one', might just lead you to the right person.

We should do everything at our own pace, including sex.Fiona speaks about a series of first times that happened after her discovering a good relationship with herself first.She reminds us that we shouldn't rush things because we think they should happen, but instead, wait until the time is right.