Having true and authentic peace requires a bit more from us than we think. Now thinking 'the absence of instability and conflicts is peace we are mistaken'. You are truly at peace after doing a bit of work and having God's blessing over the situation. I've been purged, to desist from creating superficial peace. Which, I've learnt is caused by thinking the likes of 'as long as we don't bother each other, we are good' 'ending or avoiding a conversation 'for the sake of peace',no, that's for the sake of silence'..basically avoiding confrontation and believing isolation has resulted in much peace. A great deal of a reality check, confrontation and reconciliation has to come into play 2Cor5:18, Phil 4:7