What if this year, your focus on Thanksgiving was fully targeted towards gratitude, keeping your "triggers" holstered? You mostly know the kinds of challenges you will be presented with by family members who rub you the wrong way. It'll be no surprise. So what if you went into T-giving knowing this? Imagine what it might feel like NOT to respond the way you usually find yourself doing when confronted with a difficult family situation. You might very well find a greater deal of joy than you ever expected. It's worth a try, right?