Imagine being a pay‑pig who literally can’t spend: a frozen bank account turns one submissive’s ritual into rage (February 14, 2017). We look at how identity, frustration, and financial bureaucracy collide when money is the kink—and the system jams.

Highlights

• 00:00 – Spending as fetish 101

• 01:23 – Two jobs, three paychecks, zero access: the account freeze

• 02:44 – Losing more than a purchase—losing a piece of self

• 04:28 – The tangent about horses (yes, really)

• 06:29 – Final reflection: how fragile is a fin‑dom dynamic when the cash flow stops?