When you see someone doing something negative do you see the bad in somebody else, or do you see that you have an opportunity to help somebody? The answer if you see bad in somebody else it’s like a mirror that showing you the issues you have within yourself, however, if you see how you can help somebody else then it’s not reflecting your own bad it’s only to give me the opportunity to help somebody else and that’s the reason why they showed it to you. לקו״ש י-ב