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Nobody Cares (And That’s Positive!) #65
Show Notes — Episode 65: Nobody Cares.
In this reflective solo episode of Busy Pro Fast Wellness, Alan Welch explores one of the most liberating truths for busy professionals: nobody cares — and that’s a good thing.
For years, Alan found himself worrying about what others thought — striving to fit in, seeking approval, fearing judgment. But life has a way of teaching lessons in unexpected places.
The Istanbul Story
In the early 90s, while commuting on a packed local train in Istanbul, Alan noticed that people would often stare at him simply because he looked different. One morning, he played a small game: Alan explains the game in the podcast but in that moment, a clear realisation appeared:
People aren’t judging you.
People aren’t scrutinising you.
People aren’t even thinking about you.
They’re thinking about themselves.
This becomes the central message of the episode — and a powerful mental shift.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✔ Why most self-consciousness is based on imaginary audiences
People are wrapped up in their own thoughts, deadlines, worries, and lives.
You're a brief cameo in someone else’s day — not their main character.
✔ The surprising freedom in realising “nobody cares”
With this mindset, you become free to:
try things
start things
fail publicly
speak openly
dress how you want
create without permission
grow without fear
✔ How to apply this in daily life
Alan offers practical, simple ways to step out of overthinking and into confidence, integrity, and authenticity.
This episode is about the inner liberation that comes when you stop performing for an audience that isn’t actually watching.
Quote of the Episode
“You would worry less what people think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” — Olin Miller
Listen Now
A short, powerful mindset reset for busy professionals who want more mental clarity, confidence, and freedom.
If this episode resonated, please follow, like, or leave a quick review....it helps more people discover fast, practical wellness tools each week.
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By Alan WelchShow Notes — Episode 65: Nobody Cares.
In this reflective solo episode of Busy Pro Fast Wellness, Alan Welch explores one of the most liberating truths for busy professionals: nobody cares — and that’s a good thing.
For years, Alan found himself worrying about what others thought — striving to fit in, seeking approval, fearing judgment. But life has a way of teaching lessons in unexpected places.
The Istanbul Story
In the early 90s, while commuting on a packed local train in Istanbul, Alan noticed that people would often stare at him simply because he looked different. One morning, he played a small game: Alan explains the game in the podcast but in that moment, a clear realisation appeared:
People aren’t judging you.
People aren’t scrutinising you.
People aren’t even thinking about you.
They’re thinking about themselves.
This becomes the central message of the episode — and a powerful mental shift.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
✔ Why most self-consciousness is based on imaginary audiences
People are wrapped up in their own thoughts, deadlines, worries, and lives.
You're a brief cameo in someone else’s day — not their main character.
✔ The surprising freedom in realising “nobody cares”
With this mindset, you become free to:
try things
start things
fail publicly
speak openly
dress how you want
create without permission
grow without fear
✔ How to apply this in daily life
Alan offers practical, simple ways to step out of overthinking and into confidence, integrity, and authenticity.
This episode is about the inner liberation that comes when you stop performing for an audience that isn’t actually watching.
Quote of the Episode
“You would worry less what people think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” — Olin Miller
Listen Now
A short, powerful mindset reset for busy professionals who want more mental clarity, confidence, and freedom.
If this episode resonated, please follow, like, or leave a quick review....it helps more people discover fast, practical wellness tools each week.