"Have you looked around? Nobody’s driving this car. We’re all just leaning on the wheel pretending it’s intentional". This deep dive explores why Power is just a story we tell ourselves to feel safe in a chaotic world, while Influence is the messy reality that actually shapes our lives. We think we can change the world by rearranging the "furniture" of leadership, but true change only happens when we stop feeding the habits and patterns that run quietly in the background. Stop fighting the war; start watching the water you're swimming in.