After fumbling a Black History Month speech, Tony reflects on the moments that shape how we talk about race—both the ones we plan and the ones that just happen. He shares a story about being followed in a store at ten years old, connects it to an all-too-familiar experience today, and breaks down how a lighthearted Facebook joke about reality triggered a woman more than the reality itself. This episode is about nostalgia, surveillance, the missing context in conversations about race and how people refuse to understand.