Not a Purse!

After many heartfelt conversations and countless shared stories, Jo and Larissa wrap up this chapter of Not a Purse! with love and gratitude. In this final episode, they look back on how it all started, what the podcast has meant to them, and the unexpected ways it shaped their journey. It's a celebration of growth, connection, and daring to speak about the things that are often left unsaid. Thank you for being part of this beautiful experiment in honesty and community. This isn't goodbye—just see you later.

In this honest and grounding episode, Larissa and Jo sit down with Kieran, a grief and trauma coach, to talk about the realities of child loss—a topic so often wrapped in silence. From the heartbreak of losing her firstborn to the everyday work of weaving his memory into family life, Kieran shares her story with deep vulnerability. Together, they explore the isolation of grief, the discomfort around pregnancy loss, and the unspoken belief that babies aren’t supposed to die. They also discuss how to talk about loss—with children, partners, and community—and the power of support, advocacy, and honest conversation in healing. Kieran, who lovingly calls herself a "walking trigger warning" offers a courageous, compassionate invitation into grief, memory, and connection.

To learn more about Kieran’s work, visit www.becoln.com.

In this raw and heartfelt episode, Larissa and Jo sit down with Annalisa to talk about the postpartum experience and the multifaceted journey of early parenthood. Together, they peel back the layers of expectation, exhaustion, and transformation that often go unspoken. From birth recovery and shifting identities to the emotional rollercoaster of caring for a newborn, Annalisa shares her personal story with honesty and vulnerability. The trio dives into the mental and physical realities of life after birth, including the moments that are beautiful, the ones that are brutal, and everything in between. This episode is a reminder that you're not alone—and that sharing the hard parts matters just as much as celebrating the good. Tune in for an open, grounding, and deeply human conversation on postpartum and parenthood.

Why do we learn so little about periods beyond reproduction? In this episode, Larissa and Jo sit down with Rhiana and Vanessa to unpack the gaps in sex education and the societal norms that fail to accommodate the hormonal cycle. They share first period stories, reflect on the ways menstrual health is typically overlooked, and challenge the widely accepted world structures centered around male biology. From migraines and nausea to constipation and mood swings muscle soreness, they shed light on the often-ignored symptoms that come with menstruation. They explore how breaking the silence with peers and listening to our bodies can make all the difference. Tune in for an honest, insightful, and empowering discussion on periods, friendship, and rewriting the narrative.

In this thought-provoking episode, Larissa and Jo sit down with PhD student in global health, Landry Kalembo, to unravel the complexities of touch as a basic human need. Why is physical contact widely encouraged for newborns but increasingly restricted as we age? Together, they discuss the undeniable benefits of touch and examine the cultural, social, and environmental factors that shape our comfort with physical connection. They question the origins of these taboos and explore how ethnocentrism influences our perceptions. Could greater awareness be the key to breaking down these invisible barriers? Tune in for a compelling conversation that challenges the way we think about human connection.

In this episode, Jo and Larissa delve into the fascinating and mysterious practices of Gukuna and Kunyaza in Rwandan culture, uncovering their true meaning beyond Western misconceptions. They also explore the Kama Sutra as more than a guide to intimacy—showing how it embraces a holistic approach to love and life. Inspired by works like "L'eau sacrée" and "Zirara Zubakwa," they discuss the powerful shift in viewing sexual pleasure apart from love and examine how early exploration and education can help break down cultural taboos. From societal expectations to attitudes around adultery, they challenge the conventions and encourage listeners to rethink pleasure without stigma. This episode is a multicultural journey into pleasure as a natural, celebrated part of our lives and traditions.

In this riveting episode, Larissa and Jo are joined by sex educator Rae to tackle the evolving landscape of sex education head-on. From dismantling stigma around STIs to exploring relationship fluidity and kink, they leave no taboo unturned. Rae shares invaluable perspectives on sex and relationships from her many years of educating youth and adults on the topic. Together, they challenge traditional norms, advocate for inclusive language, and emphasize the vital role of consent and communication in healthy relationships. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that looks to revolutionize how we approach modern sex education.

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In this episode, Jo and Larissa are joined by guests Agnes and Guiomar to uncover the often-hidden aspects of menopause. They share heartfelt recommendations and resources to help navigate this life stage, while highlighting the positive changes menopause can bring. They also delve into how capitalism shapes the medical industry and its impact on women's health. Agnes and Guiomar emphasize the importance of intersectionality, ensuring every woman's experience is acknowledged and validated. Tune in for a down-to-earth conversation that aims to empower and support you, regardless of whether you have had the experience (or will or won't!) of menopause.

In this episode, Jo and Larissa tackle the fascinating topic of male contraception, starting with the history of condoms and their cultural significance across the globe. They explore why condoms became a staple during the HIV pandemic and discuss the ongoing need for more non-hormonal methods of contraception. The conversation also delves into what male contraception could learn from female contraception options, while addressing the trust issues and challenges that come with introducing new contraceptives. With society increasingly expressing a desire for male contraception, this episode sheds light on the evolving landscape of reproductive health for men.

In this episode, Jo and Larissa are joined by Frances for a candid conversation about early sexual exploration and pleasure. They discuss the importance of social acceptance and openness around masturbation, sharing personal experiences and reflections on parental guidance. They also explore children's natural curiosity and the need to create safe spaces for these inevitable discussions to occur. Frances reveals the lifelong impact of early sexual exploration, emphasizing the ongoing parental support and encouragement of early education. The trio also explores parents' concerns and the critical need for certain conditions to be present in order to create safe and enjoyable sexual experiences for all. Tune in for an open discussion that highlights the need for continued dialogue and flexibility.