It's a work circumstance with a challenging co worker. This co worker is a gossiping male who uses Talk as a weapon and happens to be yielded at me. But, my trust aligns with a particular knowing and that is what the real Brielle said from her YouTube pedestal wife society. She said, get use to being the monster in someone's story. You give a boundary, you say no to something. You just create d your role in their story. You became the monster. Don't try to change their minds. It's OK, just move on, with your story. You are the main actor in your movie, others are side character. As for others, they are their own main movie role charactor, in their lives, and you are secondary characters to them. You don't have to convince them, the inconvinsible . That's not your role. Do not let your peace get upset, peace disturbed. If there is a great upset in you from their story, then it's time to come to your journal, listen to your own reasons as to why these things are getting to you. Then give compelling reasons of how awesome you are and how you've just tried your best.