You don't need no help cause you're I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T.... That mentality will keep you I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T too...  Try being interdependent. You can do for yourself but in a relationship, you realize you don't have to do it all by yourself.... or you can stay I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T... the choice is yours.