Just because children never blessed our loins doesn't mean we don't kinda like them. Well, we do, and we don't. 

Babies, motherhood, and the quiet panic of doing life “wrong.” In Not My Circus, Emily and Courtney talk being child-free by choice, by chance, and by biology—with honesty, dark humor, rockin’ nipples, and zero judgment. A conversation about listening to your own small voice, loving the life you actually have, and accepting that not everyone is meant to run the same circus.

Show Notes:
In this episode of 'That Wasn't the Plan,' hosts Emily White and Courtney Holland explore the complexities of motherhood, personal choices, and the unexpected turns life takes. They reflect on their childhood experiences, discuss the societal pressures surrounding motherhood, and share their thoughts on love and relationships. The conversation delves into the joys and challenges of blending families and the importance of personal growth in navigating these dynamics. With humor and honesty, they address the realities of parenting and the diverse paths women take in their lives. In this conversation, Courtney and Emily explore the complexities of love, heartbreak, and the dynamics of family relationships. They discuss the joys and challenges of being involved with children, societal expectations surrounding parenthood, and the unique struggles faced by single parents. The conversation also delves into the importance of self-acceptance and personal growth, as well as the impact of teachers on children's lives. Ultimately, they emphasize the significance of listening to one's heart and making choices that align with personal values.

Takeaways

Courtney never felt a strong desire for children, filling her life with wild experiences instead.

Emily has no maternal instinct and never felt the urge to have children.

Both hosts acknowledge the societal pressure to become mothers and the guilt that can accompany it.

They discuss the concept of true love and how it can exist outside of traditional motherhood.

Courtney reflects on her nurturing nature towards animals and people, despite not having children.

Emily emphasizes the importance of personal choice in motherhood and the acceptance of different paths.

They share humorous anecdotes about their childhood play and how it shaped their views on parenting.

The conversation highlights the challenges of blending families and the adjustments required.

Both hosts express gratitude for their current lives without children, valuing their freedom and independence.

They conclude with reflections on the importance of being true to oneself in the face of societal expectations.  Courtney experienced heartbreak when she fell in love with a partner's children.

Emily shares her joy in seeing a partner's relationship with his kids.

Societal expectations often pressure women regarding motherhood.

Single parents face immense challenges and deserve recognition.

Teachers play a crucial role in shaping young minds despite the challenges they face.

Self-acceptance is a journey that enhances personal growth.

Listening to one's heart is essential in making life choices.

The conversation highlights the importance of being true to oneself.

Parenting is a significant responsibility that should be carefully considered.

Both speakers emphasize the joy and challenges of family dynamics. 

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