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Not (Not) Podcast - Ep. 11
My first job in 11 years, #GIRLBOSS fails, and the myth of the strong independent woman...Shout out to Debbie Hannan for telling me I'm not allowed to share my story. Your "support" made this episode possible.
Boxer Briefs - https://amzn.to/4oQ44T5
Incense Matches - https://amzn.to/4lKiEZw
Crochet Starter Kit - https://amzn.to/3JtKY53
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
00:32 - What does it mean to be “employable” in 2025?
00:59 - My first and last corporate job
02:10 - #GIRLBOSS03:23 - The Struggle Olympics
05:37 - Addicted to being a victim
06:37 - The end of my first business
07:46 - If a Capricorn were your villain, say thank you
08:57 - Being the scapegoat of the family system
09:30 - The prison of the white picket fence
10:19 - Trained to be a people pleaser
11:00 - When something feels bad, you’re supposed to leave
11:38 - Radical Responsibility
12:27 - If you don’t take responsibility, you don’t get the power
13:35 - Emotional debt will catch up to you
14:40 - Is it not clocking to you that I’m standing on business
15:30 - What does it mean to be Not (Not) Employed?
16:23 - I don’t need to be needed, I want to be wanted
17:36 - Without the loss, I wouldn’t have gained
18:28 - God will answer your prayers
19:13 - Happiness is the way to happiness
19:30 - Boy’s Nike Pro boxer briefs
21:10 - A hobby that is not for the internet
22:22 - Incense Matches
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I'm Daryl Oh. I'm a 33-year-old artist living out of her suitcase. I have a podcast and write a newsletter every other Sunday about building systems that don’t break you, making art without losing your mind, and figuring out how to live without burning out (again).
🔵 not (not) an artist 🔴 not (not) an architect
🏁 my service — https://www.instagram.com/not_not_notion
👇 let’s get to work
https://cal.com/not-not-daryl
🔗 Download My Notion Templates:
https://notnotstudio.gumroad.com
📰 SUBSCRIBE to the Not Not Newsletter:
https://notnotnewsletter.myflodesk.com/subscribe
📱 Follow me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/not_not_daryl/
https://www.instagram.com/not_not_notion/
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By Daryl OhNot (Not) Podcast - Ep. 11
My first job in 11 years, #GIRLBOSS fails, and the myth of the strong independent woman...Shout out to Debbie Hannan for telling me I'm not allowed to share my story. Your "support" made this episode possible.
Boxer Briefs - https://amzn.to/4oQ44T5
Incense Matches - https://amzn.to/4lKiEZw
Crochet Starter Kit - https://amzn.to/3JtKY53
Chapters
00:00 - Intro
00:32 - What does it mean to be “employable” in 2025?
00:59 - My first and last corporate job
02:10 - #GIRLBOSS03:23 - The Struggle Olympics
05:37 - Addicted to being a victim
06:37 - The end of my first business
07:46 - If a Capricorn were your villain, say thank you
08:57 - Being the scapegoat of the family system
09:30 - The prison of the white picket fence
10:19 - Trained to be a people pleaser
11:00 - When something feels bad, you’re supposed to leave
11:38 - Radical Responsibility
12:27 - If you don’t take responsibility, you don’t get the power
13:35 - Emotional debt will catch up to you
14:40 - Is it not clocking to you that I’m standing on business
15:30 - What does it mean to be Not (Not) Employed?
16:23 - I don’t need to be needed, I want to be wanted
17:36 - Without the loss, I wouldn’t have gained
18:28 - God will answer your prayers
19:13 - Happiness is the way to happiness
19:30 - Boy’s Nike Pro boxer briefs
21:10 - A hobby that is not for the internet
22:22 - Incense Matches
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I'm Daryl Oh. I'm a 33-year-old artist living out of her suitcase. I have a podcast and write a newsletter every other Sunday about building systems that don’t break you, making art without losing your mind, and figuring out how to live without burning out (again).
🔵 not (not) an artist 🔴 not (not) an architect
🏁 my service — https://www.instagram.com/not_not_notion
👇 let’s get to work
https://cal.com/not-not-daryl
🔗 Download My Notion Templates:
https://notnotstudio.gumroad.com
📰 SUBSCRIBE to the Not Not Newsletter:
https://notnotnewsletter.myflodesk.com/subscribe
📱 Follow me on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/not_not_daryl/
https://www.instagram.com/not_not_notion/