In this episode of the Built For More podcast, I sit down with Nate and Tommy from Dads Who Try to explore their journey into fatherhood, social media, and how they build a community for dads.

They discuss the ups and downs of being a present dad, the importance of vulnerability, and why it’s okay not to have it all figured out.

Get ready for an authentic, no-holds-barred conversation about the challenges and rewards of fatherhood.

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Timestamps:

• 00:03 – Introduction to the episode and the guests, Nate and Tommy from Dads Who Try

• 01:06 – Why Nate and Tommy started Dads Who Try and their mission to support dads

• 02:25 – Nate’s advice to dads: It’s about the effort, not perfection

• 03:47 – Tommy’s advice on being intentional and not overthinking

• 05:25 – The struggles of being a present dad while juggling work and family life

• 06:27 – Nate and Tommy’s journey of building a community and facing challenges in parenting

• 09:00 – Reflecting on the rapid growth of Dads Who Try on social media

• 13:59 – The responsibilities of creating content for a growing audience and staying authentic

• 17:36 – How they handle the pressure to constantly grow their following while staying true to their values

• 20:00 – The temptation to chase viral content vs. sticking to authentic, real-life moments

• 24:25 – The power of vulnerability: Why being open and honest makes you a stronger parent

• 28:20 – How Tommy and Nate stay grounded in their parenting journey despite the challenges

• 32:10 – What dads are often afraid to be honest about: Facing emotions and seeking help

• 34:30 – Why dads struggle to open up and how to change that mindset

• 40:43 – The importance of clear communication between moms and dads

• 45:55 – What moms should know about dads and why understanding and patience are key

• 47:15 – Final thoughts on being a present and authentic dad, and what they hope their kids will say about them

• 51:17 – Giveaway announcement and closing thoughts