Dr. Hughes tells the listener the two most vital things related to sexuality for the higher desire partner. The first is that their soul is in separately sexual. The second is an action step of being present so that the higher desire partner‘s soul feels accepted, valued, desired, cared for,and seen.

Dr. Hughes provides the insight to the question of, “so what do I do now that I am learning all of this about myself or my partner.” He discusses the two negative outcome options and the two positive outcome options for the sexual desire discrepancy couple that has now began to gain insight into what is really going on at the root of this dynamic.