In 2019 who really wears the pants or should we all be wearing skirts? In this provocative episode Ye and Sochi discuss the complexities of gender roles especially as it relates to black culture. In a world where some of the most renowned celebrities are being exposed for dark lives, people are increasingly questioning the value of the institution of marriage, hashtags and movements like #metoo dominate the social media and identity is no longer as simple as he and she. How do gender roles play a part in our modern day society?