Cheerlead those who cheerlead you and watch what happens to your life.

It is officially March of 2022 people!  This is incredible!  How are your new years resolutions going? Oh wait, what? New years resolutions? Yeah, you probably haven't thought about those in a couple of weeks or maybe even a month if you ever thought about them at all?

Why is that?  Well I take a look at one of the most common new years resolutions over the past 5 years that was consistently plastered across all of the socials.  "GET THESE DANG TOXIC PEOPLE OUT OF MY LIFE!"  Yes there were hilarious memes and GIFS filled with plenty of sass and attitude.

But my questions to you are...

1. What does it mean to be toxic?

2. Are "toxic" people irredeemable? Is permanency a contingent component of toxicity?

3. How successful were you in your efforts?

4. (And this is a tough one) - Have you looked into the mirror and done a self check on your toxic levels?

I propose that trying not to do something, or trying to get rid of something is actually much more difficult then seeking out something or pursuing a positive gain.  Once the consistency of food, water, and safety is established we then become motivated to lead better and more fulfilling lives and it is hard if not impossible to do this without meaningful relationships.

It is one thing to start a new relationship (friend, intimate, business, family, etc.) but to maintain it, and to give it it's proper care and attention, and to do so as a priority of life, this is where our lives change.

Our lives improve through the actions we take, especially those actions that reflect true and honest care and love for those around us.

Cheerlead those who cheerlead you and watch what happens to your life.