Some time ago, I wrote a post saying I wasn’t completely comfortable with my wife training jiu jitsu with men. The reaction from many practitioners was intense. I was called insecure, and some people insisted that abuse simply doesn’t happen in the BJJ community.

Since then, I’ve seen more and more posts and discussions acknowledging that jiu jitsu has had issues with grooming and abuse, and that these problems have existed for years. It’s been interesting to watch that shift. When I first shared my concerns, a lot of higher belts and experienced practitioners dismissed my perspective. Now, many of those same types of voices openly recognize that these problems are real.

That contrast is hard to ignore. I talk about it in more detail in episode 116.

I saw something similar during my time in the military. In environments that are heavily male dominated, with very few women, the risk of misconduct can increase. My concerns were never about insecurity. They were about awareness, caution, and looking out for the people I care about.

On this long overdue episode of the NYCTalking Podcast, I’m joined by Bronx native and author Michael Colon. We talk about his book The Gift From Aelius, a story about sentient AI beings that once helped humanity but now find themselves in a dark situation—something that feels a little too close to today’s world. We also take a trip down memory lane and chat about growing up in the Bronx. Give it a listen!

On this episode I am joined by two owners of the Gameday Men's health franchise. Tune in to learn how they are trying to revolutionize the space of men's health. Are you on TRT? Considering it? This podcast episode is a good place to start.

You ever talk to a person and think to yourself, this person is as sweet as sugar. That's the feeling I got when I chatted with Gracie Lou Hyland. Her energy was soothing, her voice was soft, and her words were comfort. Meet Gracie Lou, a singer songwriter who was recently on the Hulu show "Claim to fame." Join us as we chat about her music, figure skating and more of her work.

This is an NYCTalking blog post. Nuisance streamer, Johnny Somali may finally be getting what he deserves!

This is a post from the NYCTalking blog. I'm not the guy you are looking for.

I am joined by author of the Last decade of cinema, Scott Ryan. Join us as we discuss the great decade of cinema that was the 90s. We talk Pulp Fiction, crappy superhero films and more!

I am joined by Doug Kari, author of the true crime book, The Berman Murders. Listen in as we talk about that, plus some other horrible crimes that he's covered. We also talk about life. Tune in.

I am joined by MD and author Dr Paul Corona. On this episode he shares with us his medical approach known as the Corona Protocol. Listen in as he details his process in helping people live a happier and healthier life. This was round two as I lost our first interview.

I am joined by Writer, Journalist, Editor, and 75 year old Fitness Enthusiast Marilynn Larkin. Marilynn competes in bodybuilding, she coaches people and is living with and kicking cancer's ass!